It can be very easy to fall in to “down” streaks. Having day after day of bad luck, bad days, and having life in general just feel like shit.
It does not have to be like that though. Life does not have to be bad. Read that again, and say it aloud. Life does not have to be bad. In fact it can be as great as you want it to be.
While many rely on exterior circumstance to feel good, or try to escape the bad with various substances, how life goes really boils down to one thing.
That one thing is your state, your frame of mind, your thoughts. Basically the thoughts you allow to be inside you, and even moreso the ones you speak make HUGE impact on your life, your day to day.
While I’d suggest reframing any negative thoughts in your head to a positive, or saying how the negative is unnecessary/ridiculous/etc, here’s a nifty little trick that works wonders.
Never voice a negative aloud.
This practice will naturally make everything more positive for you.
Looking back a high percentage of “natural” charisma is doing just that.
How many charismatic men do you know that are whiners, complainers, or that voice any such negative nonsense?
Exactly, they are all a mix of happy go lucky, and stoic.
No matter how bad, or boring/mundane, or hopeless a day may seem whenever someone asks how are you or any of its variations I always respond in a strong positive, trying to light up as I say it.
I always put on a real (or faked) happy ass front, with the intention of meaning what I say.
Notice how any acquaintance you make with that initial mannerism goes well.
Also when you have the stronger frame watch the awesomeness of your world rub off on all around you.
Why put bullshit negatively out into the world when you can Put On a Happy Face? Doing just that will work wonders. Even if at first it is “fake”.
The faked front with good intention behind it will become real.
Never voice negativity, and watch how your world gets better and brighter.
Only allow positive things to come out of your mouth.
-J